Life...Your Life determines who you are..or does it?

Having a wonderful life is what everyone wants. A perfect life is indeed everyone's dream life. But where can we find this perfect life, where everything is just so perfect. Having the right family, with the right finances to support it, with amazing inteligence along with a great attitude and character, and last but not least, a perfect life partner.
Having the perfect house

the living room and stairs inside

the dining room and the bedroom to go with it

Is our life really as colourful as we think it is?

or do we live our life in disguise. The looks on the outside are just an outlook where our real self are actually on the inside of us. No matter how perfect we may seem to look, we certainly still have some flaws to us.

In short...

Nobody is perfect!

We are wonderfully and beatifully made by the hands of God. Who we are, what we are, is what God made us. All of us are created for a reason. What reason is that, well, you just got to find out for yourselves. All of us, when we are born, we are born as babies. All we know at that time is to cry, and cry for milk, or maybe just to get our diapers changed. As we go on throughout our life, we learn stuffs. We go to primary school, then secondery school. Then there is college and then universities. As we grow older, we get more matured, and sometimes we have passions in life, for example some would just love to dance or act or sing or play instruments or preach or sports or just basically anything that can be done with the hands and legs that God provided.

How we get better at it, you ask.
There is this saying, "Practice makes perfect"
As we train in something, we get better at it. As we practice and practice we get to improve our skills and technique. After a few months, we get to do things which we never thought that we could never did in our life before.

In short, what am i trying to say about this is, nobody is talentless. Everybody have talents and all we have to do is find our passion in life and train on it. Spend time with it and it shall flourish!

Even this dance performance, i never really perform on stage in front of 2000 people before. But through all the sweats and hard work, i did it! I performed with all my heart and the good thing is, i enjoyed every bit of it! Before this, i never danced in my life before. I never performed a dance before on stage. I only acted once in a drama play back in high school. Other than than, i never even been on stage. And now, in 2 nights, i was seen on stage for 3 times. Simply amazing!
Have you reach our age of enlightment?

Do we have the life that we wanted. Or isit the life that our parents wanted us to have.
For some people, our parents would just support us on what we wanted to do with our life as long as it is reasonable and have a future in it. While for some, they would want us to do what would they think is best for us. Or in other words, get into a future where we can take over their business someday or somthing. Most of us don't really like that, but what can we do, right?

Is your parents proud of you?

Sometimes, our parents can be hard on us for the decisions that we make in life. Sometimes they are those who support you all the way. All in all, they are still our parents. So either listen to them, or explain in a polite and reasonable manner why we make that decision.

Life, wonderful yet so complicated like these woods

But still, how can we do things when we don't like it or don't even have any interest or passion in doing the things that our parents want us to do.

Life is indeed a complicated thing. God didn't make Heaven and Earth, us humans and animals all so simple. He created us individually one by one. All of us are different in a way. Then again, life can't be that perfect. Sometimes, its hard for us to make a decision but personally, i've always followed my heart.

Another complicated yet magically wonderful thing is Love.
where is the love?

To me, love is something which is very complicated. Let me just say that, “to love someone is easy, but for someone to love you is hard”. Why do I say this? Well, it is impossible to know anyone who loves you unless he/she tell you. Even if they do tell you, how do you exactly know that they are telling the truth?

Who really loves you?

It is quite impossible to tell the difference between the truth and lies. Acting comes into people minds who are so desperate that they are willing to do everything until they get what they want. They could just be desperate to get that prince or princess that they dream of getting. Some would just dream, dream and dream. While they are some who would do everything in their power to get what they want.

Here’s an example…Let’s say, that your team is losing 1 goal to 0 in a football match. Certainly your team wouldn’t want to lose the match right? What would your players do? They would ACT. Someone tries to tackle one of your players inside the box and then suddenly out of no where, your player fell down without even contact on him.

The referee awards your team a penalty. And your team scores. The score is 1-1. This is an act of desperation. Who would ever want to lose a game unless if the game is a friendly la..which doesn’t really matter who wins or lose..When during a competition, who would want to lose. Everybody wants to win, right?

Well, so do those desperate people out there. They tell you lies in desperation to get what they want. Let say, some guy came to you and explain about some organization about children cancer or something. Then they would ask for donation. How would you know they are telling the truth? They could just be acting to take your precious money. The organization could just be an organization to take people money and use them for themselves. Those images could just be taken off the Internet like any other pictures. Internet is like the source of everything right now.
Beware of who you give donations to

Are we just too naive to realize this? Newspapers a few years ago came out an article where it says that those people "collecting" donations are not really donations. For example, if you give RM10. The cause that you donated to only receive 10% where the agents aka "the collector" receive 50% and the company that hires them receive 40%. Is this fair? No way! I would prefer to give RM100 to those who need directly rather than give to those agents. Frauds they are. If you want to give, do your research first. There lotsa frauds out there so watch out. These people just act in desperation. I don't think those agents have much sympathy

The same goes to love. I know coz I’ve seen so enough of friends getting themselves lied for their partner to get them as their boyfriend/girlfriend. It is just so sad to see them suffer because of that. And I've been the middle man more times than i can even think of being in a relationship. I tried to fix the problem where the problem couldn’t really be fix at all.

All the problem can only be solved with one thing.


They were just acting to get what they want. So it is imposible to repair something which was never real in the first place. Trusting one another is important for a relationship. Without trust, how can you even trust the other half to take care of you.

There is this amazing thing called "Love"

The best thing that can happen in life is "to love and be loved"

Love is indeed a wonderful and an amazing adventure to everyone that is powerful and also precious yet it is still complicated and a little bit cruel in a certain way. Still its magical prowess of love conquers all.

How to find your right partner?

Well, i don't really know the answer to that question,
as i myself haven't even found one myself.

But i know one thing for sure.
Why not...

Just Be The Right Partner!

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