A few tips for the guys...

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Yes, I'm writing this one for the guys now.

I know, you must be thinking how i know this.
Well, you can say i just learn from past experiences.
And also having some girls as friends. :P

Okay, there are few basic rules a guy shouldn't do when you're after a girl.

1. Do not keep on calling/sms/facebook/msn/email her

Yes, you may think this is very normal to do to a girl that you like but actually you're wrong. Very very wrong. In fact, you're no different than a stalker who is obsessed with that girl.

Girls are very scared of guys like this. They keep on calling and calling every single day, and just sms-ing every time to check on things with the girl. You should only do this if the two of you are already attached. Before you even start a relationship, this is totally off boundaries. You're just scaring the hell out of her if you're doing this.

It is also irritating for the girls to keep receiving calls and smses from you. You notice that she doesn't pick up your calls anymore. You will realize that she doesn't reply your smses anymore. I know at the start of that friendship, the two of you may be constantly talking and sms-ing to each other. But once this gets out of hand, she will start to get scared and thinks that something is weird and wrong there.

Girls mind are always thinking, so once they think that something is not going so right there, they will immediately back off fearing the worse could happen.

So as guys, we should actually be much more sensitive to girls. Girls like attention but not too much until like a stalker. So in short don't be a stalker when you can just be a friend.

2. Take things slow and get to know her

Yes, this may be one of the hardest things to do for a guy. Firstly, do not so fast get attracted to her and liking her so fast. Yes, i know she may be treating you very nice and you feel like she likes you back. But you're very very wrong. Most girls are very kind and gentle in nature. Almost all of them are very kind especially towards people whom they first know for a few weeks. It is called "being friendly". She doesn't like you actually. She is just being friendly and nice to you because she thinks that you can be a good friend.

Most of the time, guys surely overdo it in this area. When girls treat a guy very nice for the first few weeks, they guy would think that she likes him. This fact is so so wrong. A girl treating you nice and everything doesn't mean that she likes you.

Guys should instead just be nice to her back and just be yourself. You should not get so over about this. Over doing it will definitely kill the friendship immediately. You may have heard of the saying "Love at first sight" right? Well, to be honest, this phrase is actually not true. Two person who love each other at first sight is totally absurd. How can two strangers love each other when they first met. This is just like a one-night stand thingy. This kind of relationship will surely not last long as the two still haven't really get to know each other. Once the bad sides of each other comes around, then you'll see if you can stand each other or not.


Okay, this is just 2 of the steps that guys should not be doing.


The most common mistake guys can do is the 2 of the things above.

1. Calling/SMS/MSN/Facebook her too much
2. Thinking that she likes you after a few weeks



More to come...

What a Moment!

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I would do the exact same thing as the picture
if i was on the pitch at the same moment.

For that moment for simply brilliant magical stuff
For Paul Scholes to score that glancing header in the Manchester Derby
pass Shay Given in the 92 minute of the game and
for the whistle to be blown right after that
is simply magical!

I would also go and kiss Jermaine Defoe and Gareth Bale if
Tottenham win their game tonight.
They are now leading 2-0 in the 50th minute of the game
with Defoe and Bale scoring the goals.
Loving today even more!


-Peace out!-

I'm feeling blue....very very blue....

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Yes, I'm feeling quite blue at the moment...
It has been a few days since Sunday.

Oh well, you can't win all the time
But as a die-hard Man Utd fan,
It just happens once in a while.

So yeah, this is a random post dedicated to the blueness
of everything you can find in life.

Don't proceed to read if you're not fond of blueness, just ignore this post.

Blue.

See...it's so blue....


You can so find so many things that a blue.
Some naturally blue, while some are digitized.
Some are man-made stuffs.
Everything is like so blue right now.
I'm seeing blue every where.
Even on my office table there are blue things.

I might as well be this person here
See how blue he is.
Very blue right?
I know right. He maybe experiencing some
extreme blueness right now.
*Ignore my lameness

Gosh, even the sky is blue.
And because of the sky, the ocean also become blue
because of the reflection it gets.

It's a blue blue world we live in.
Don't you think so?

Even the movie "Avatar" has blue men
Called "Navi People"

Like these two.
Whatever their names is, I don't know
Why i don't know. Because i haven't freaking watch the so called
"Movie of the century"

Yes, I maybe slow in updating myself with all these movies,
but i will still watch them after in a few months time.

Since everything is so blue right now,
I really feel like this kid in the picture below.
Just look at the whole room man.
Every item is just blue, blue, blue.
Respect him.
He must be feeling very blue all the time.
:P


Please ignore this post.
I'm just very blue at the moment.
Later i become a Chelsea fan instead because of the blueness.
Crap! What the heck I'm typing wei. Sial!

- The End -

Guess what?

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LOL! Yes! Guess what i joined recently?



Dance school??




No lah...





Drama School??



Hmmm.....Maybe....




But no also lah




Art School??





Interesting.....but





No also loh...




So what did i actually join?

Hmmm....You think leh?


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Cheerleading Team!
I probably be the only guy in the team like in the picture on the left side.
But luckily I'm not the only guy :)


Here are my team mates.
In no alphabetical or particular order.


Johnathan Teo

Audrey Ho

Jolene Phang

Hannah Quek

The Top 2 right most person and bottom right.
Christine, and CS
and Chiew Foong.

Kar Chun (KC) and CS again

LOL! Okay okay...i know I'm lame..Hahah!
But yeah..this is what i joined recently. A Cheerleading Team.
I just joined for the training and also for the experience.
Too bad i couldn't join the team for the competition in May 29th as i will be going for my Great Grand Aunt's Birthday in Penang. It's on the very same weekend. Also sad that it also clashes with Asia Conference on that very same week. Since i already promised my parents like very early already even before i knew any dates for Asia Conference and also the competition date.

Hopefully this experience and learning of the more advance cheerleading stunts will do me well in the future. Who knows, it may be of good use.

Here are some clips which we might....i repeat...might be doing..hahah!